Message of the Moment reported by Rev. E. Anderson
July 20, 2008 at 8:00 pm (Messages of the Moment)
Rev. E. Anderson
WORRY WARS
Rob Parsons lets his imagination run wild
There are four basic emotions: anger, fear, happiness and sadness. I wonder which of them affects us most. I think for many us it is fear. The strange thing is that so often it’s hard to put our finger on what we are actually afraid of; it’s simply that somewhere deep inside us there is an ever-present gnawing anxiety. I remember my children reading the ‘Mr Men’ series of books. One of the characters was called Mr. Worry.
This dear man was plagued by fear. He would worry about his car, his dog, his house, his dinner. And when he had nothing to worry about, he got even more concerned for he was sure he had missed something important – and that bothered him more than anything.
I sympathise with Mr. worry. Sometimes when I am lying in bed in the morning I imagine having a conversation with somebody. They say something that annoys me and I reply angrily; they shoot back a stunning comment and I deliver a withering riposte. Then suddenly my thoughts run away with me and I start to worry about it all. And then, just as a headache is beginning to form over my right eye, I realise that the whole thing has occurred in my mind. Nobody has said anything nasty to me at all. I have not actually had a row with anybody. In fact, there is no real problem – and it’s probably it’s time to get out of bed.
But that’s only one of hundreds of times I’ve had those ‘runaway thoughts’. I’ve had them before annual church meetings, when I have imagined battles between opposing camps. (The actual events often turned out to be far less entertaining). And I’ve had ‘runaway thoughts’ about my health. In fact, when I was a child we had something in our home called ‘The Doctor’s Book’ which allowed you to look up the symptoms of various ailments. The only problem was that every time I consulted the thing, I became convinced I not only had the illness I had looked up, but the one facing page as well.
I had ‘runaway thoughts’ when my children were teenagers and they were a little late coming in at night. About ten minutes after their curfew I would smile nervously at my wife Dianne and start to make some tea saying, ‘He’ll be in soon.’ And then, just as I was filling up the kettle, my thoughts would race off and within moments I could imagine police cars pulling up at my door, hospitals ringing me with news of accidents, or phone calls from Gretna Green saying, ‘We’ve tied the knot. Do you want to chip in some money for the honeymoon?’
Jesus said a fascinating thing about fear: ‘Don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own’ – Matthew 6: 34. He was being practical and saying in essence, ‘Don’t worry about tomorrow because you have enough to worry about today.’ So many of our ‘runaway thoughts’ – ‘future fears’ – may never materialise. But we’ve often spent so long worrying about them, they have drained us. Mark twain said, ‘Most of my tragedies have never happened to me.’
The early explorers used to draw maps with boundaries as far as they had actually ventured, and then they would write along the edge of the map: ‘Beyond this there may be dragons.’ They had never seen a dragon, and there had never had been a dragon in any of the new places they had managed to penetrate, but beyond the edge of the map was the future – and the future was unknown. Actually, when they eventually got to the new territories, they found these were often places of wonderful beauty, rich resources, and staggering opportunity. But until then these undiscovered lands were represented by six words on the edge of a map: ‘Beyond this there may be dragons.’
The Bible tells us not to live our lives like this – allowing fear to take over. It says, ‘. . .take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ’ – 2 Corinthians 10: 5. I wonder if part of that could involve catching those thoughts before they run away with us.














