Leadership Factors

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                                        Dr. John Andrews

HOW TO LOOK GOOD NAKED

Rev. John Andrews

 

When we read the Genesis account it is striking that the first thing Adam and Eve did after they had sinned was to cover up.

 

“Then the eyes of both of them were opened, and they realised they were naked; so they sewed fig leaves together and made coverings for themselves” – v 7.

 

Previously in the account we’re told that “the man and his wife were both naked, and felt no shame”, both living in the freedom and rest of God’s original plan and the security of who they were in Him.  It seems to me that ‘covering up’ was exactly what Satan wanted them to do, for as they did so our first parents obscured God’s ‘naked’ glory and moved their own focus away from the brilliance of God’s creation to the meagreness of a covering of fig leaves, something for which fig leaves were never intended.  Imagine how God may have ‘felt’, the first time He saw the genius of His divine purpose masked by a bunch of leaves.  What a tragedy for Him, Adam and Eve and for us all.  It seems to me humanity has been ‘covering up’ ever since in an attempt to disguise the simplistic glory of God-shaped personhood and eclipse a God ordained purpose.

 

If we’re not careful as leaders we live lives covered up, afraid or ashamed to be truly naked before God and our people, after all, some of us look better with our clothes on!  However, the danger is we end up getting used to the coverings, learning to hide behind them and worst of all, drawing our identity from them.   

 

So as followers of the King and leaders of others, how can we look good naked?

 

·        Celebrate your original design

Even as leaders we need to see ourselves through Heaven’s eyes.  The bible declares we are “fearfully and wonderfully made” and that God was intimately involved in the design and shaping not so much of our genetics (we have parents for that) but of our personhood!  God doesn’t make mistakes, and He hasn’t made His first with you!  When we go back to the original we see the genius of His design and the glory of His love.

 

·        Cast off your artificial covering

When Christine first came to my church, I noticed a rather large birth-mark on her face, though she had attempted to disguise it with lots of make up.  Months later, as she discovered who she really was in Christ and learned to live with her ‘naked self’, her make up came off and Christine got free.  When people meet her, they don’t remember the birth-mark but rather a dynamic, exciting life-filled person!  Paul declares; “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.”  (Ephesians 2:10).  The New Living Translation puts it; “For we are God’s masterpiece…”  If that is true and we really believe it, then why do we expend so much energy trying to cover it up?  As leaders we need to stop trying to be superstars and learn to be followers again.  I suspect our followers don’t want perfection in their leaders, they’ve been let down by too many of those.  Rather they crave authenticity and will gladly respond to it.

 

·        Challenge the philosophy of your world

The planet sees us in a certain way, putting us in a box and labelling us with a nice neat tag.  But that isn’t the bottom line.  We must have the courage as leaders to think not according to the pattern of the planet, but by the truth of the Kingdom.  Paul urges us; “Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”  (Romans 12:2).

 

God made Adam and Eve naked so that nothing would get in the way of who they truly were.  Sin’s invasion spoilt that and ever since inferior coverings have attempted to mask His wondrous creative glory.  As leaders we need to lead the line on this issue.  We need to go naked and show those that follow us and the communities that we’re seeking to reach, that it’s possible to live naked and still look good!

 

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Contemporary Considerations

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                                      Rev. E. Anderson

HOW TO RESOLVE CONFLICT WITH YOUR SPOUSE (PART 3)
by Rick Warren

“Wisdom … is peace-loving and courteous. It allows discussion and is willing to yield to others …” – James 3:17 (LB)

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If you’re going to pull together when you’re pulled apart, you have to:

Concentrate on reconciliation, not resolution. Reconciliation means to re-establish the relationship; resolution means to resolve every issue by coming to agreement on everything.

That’s simply not going to happen. I don’t care if you both love the Lord and are both deeply in love with each other, there are some things you’ll never agree on because God has wired each of us differently.

But you can disagree without being disagreeable. That’s called wisdom. The Bible says in James 3, “Wisdom … is peace-loving and courteous. It allows discussion and it is willing to yield to others.”

The Bible says it’s wise to compromise. You can have unity without uniformity. You can walk hand-in-hand without seeing eye-to-eye. You can have reconciliation without resolution of every issue.

Some of you are worn out from the conflict in your marriage. You want to throw in the towel. Don’t do it! It is more rewarding to resolve a conflict than to dissolve a relationship.

Let me close with a couple of suggestions:

1. Get help. Many marriages are miserable, and they go year after year with the same old problems because the couple doesn’t seek professional help. Don’t go to just anybody; get a godly counsellor who bases his/her practice on God’s Word.

2. Let God help. The other thing you need to do is get help from God. You can’t do this on your own. I’ve seen these steps work, but you need Christ’s power to work them.

Many marriage conflicts could be solved overnight if both the husband and wife would kneel before Jesus and say, “We humble ourselves and humbly ask you to make this thing work. We submit our egos to you and our hurts to you. Jesus, do what only you can do.”

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Christian Testimony

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                                     John Obi Mikel

A LIFETIME’S GOAL

 

Chelsea midfield star John Obi Mikel is an unassuming young man, until he rubs shoulders with the Premiership’s toughest operators.

 

He’s now an essential part of a Blues team that continues to jostle for major honours.

 

But in an interview with New Life Newspaper, he has revealed how he puts God first in his life as he makes a bigger and bigger name for himself in the English game.

 

He said: “When I go home to Nigeria I pray to God for kids in the street, and it makes me so thankful to Him that I am where I am. 

 

“I want to start a charity to help these kids. God has blessed me, and I think you are blessed to be a blessing. As a kid, I made a few mistakes like everybody does. Thankfully, I have never made what I call a big mistake.

 

“I pray to God this never happens, and I believe it hasn’t because His hand is on my life.

 

“Apart from God, my heroes are my father and my youth coach in Nigeria, called Aylei. They stood by me and helped me become the man and player I am today. But it’s God who comes first in my life because quite simply that’s the way it is, that’s the thing that works for me.” Obi is deeply aware of the grinding poverty in Africa, where crime and terrible problems are part of the incredibly difficult growing-up process.

 

“I have to start a charity that will help them grow and develop. I have to do something that gives them real opportunity in life.”

 

Obi – having become a regular in the Chelsea first team this season – admits he can’t really believe how quickly things have developed for him.

 

He said: “To be honest, I’m in dreamland! I couldn’t have expected that things would go so well so quickly. It’s been wonderful.

 

“This is an incredibly talented team put together at huge cost. To be playing my part is like being in dreamland. I’m truly blessed.”

 

Be encouraged. There’s plenty to dislike in the world of professional football: greed, extravagant living, and everything that goes with it. But there are also John Mikel Obis of this world who have an entirely different perspective – guys who are determined to make a difference for God.

 

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